Playing by the Sister Rules

by marionroach on March 2, 2009

The Sister Project is starting to write down its rules for sisterhood. Mine follow; Paige and Anastasia have some, too. We hope you’ll add to the list.

rulesforsisterhoodW HEN OUR DAUGHTER was very young, we made up a game to play with her. Giving little thought to it and coming out of a long, hot car ride, it was designed with as much depth as a wading pool, meant to be something merely to cool us off at the moment. Not attempting to limn some psychological line here, instead, like most parents, we were merely trying to survive until the next rest stop. But the game tricked us.

“Are you a tree or a bush?” someone would ask someone else. “Are you a river or an ocean?” And the person would answer and then think up one to ask someone else. Sometimes this led to great delightful conversations with a 4-year-old, about who and what we really are. [click to continue…]

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Our Tunes: Different Strokes

by marionroach on February 24, 2009

YouTube Preview ImageOY, FREUD! SHE’S OUT, and there’s no putting her back in the box. Margaret is listing and posting and sighing along to Leonard Cohen. Well, two can play a disturbing tune. Here’s an early Judy Collins that might toss anyone (except a second sister) right onto the couch. Grab the Xanax and listen up.

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