by marionroach on April 3, 2011
ON THIS DAY in 1934 is the birth of one of the goddesses of conservation, Jane Goodall. She was 26 years old in the summer of 1960, when she arrived on the shore of Lake Tanganyika in East Africa to study the area’s chimpanzee population. We are grateful every day that she stuck with it, and designate her a sister we admire. You know we do this on occasion, yes? No? Either way, please read on. [click to continue…]
by marionroach on April 1, 2011
MAKING A LIST. That’s my duty, according to Sheilaa, everyone’s favorite astrologer. And it’s advice I’m comfortable with, since I love making lists. What does Sheilaa have in store for you? Are you brave enough to look? [click to continue…]
by marionroach on March 30, 2011
ACCENTUATE THE COMPLICATED. Yes, I know, the phrase does not have the syncopation of the wildly more popular (as well as musical), “Ac-cen-tu-ate the positive,” but as far as I can tell, the complicated makes better memoir. You might come to agree with me if you read on. [click to continue…]
by marionroach on March 25, 2011
WE’RE ALWAYS LOOKING for sisters doing cool things. And when we find them, we love nothing more than to tell you about them, and get their sisterly endeavors out there for you to enjoy. This week, just as I began to wonder about what summer shows I’ll be enjoying on TV soon, I came across a website started and maintained by two sisters, whose topic is one of my favorite TV shows. Curious? [click to continue…]
by marionroach on March 23, 2011
ALL SHE KNOWS, she learned from the birds. It’s a slight exaggeration, but only slight, as sister Margaret explains in her gorgeous piece from PARADE magazine of this week. A lovely piece of memoir, read it here.
by marionroach on March 20, 2011
On this, the Vernal Equinox, the Sun rises exactly in the east, travels through the sky for 12 hours and sets exactly in the west. On the Equinox this is the motion of the Sun through the sky for everyone on earth, with all of us together experiencing the same 12 hours of sunlight. A lovely thing to ponder, maybe we should all consider how nature provides for us strong indicators of our sameness. We’ve just left winter, of course, as marked when the sun was its lowest path in the sky on the Winter Solstice. After that day the sun has been following a higher and higher path through the sky each day until it is in the sky, as it is today, for exactly 12 hours. After the Spring Equinox, the Sun continues a higher path through the sky, and days grow longer, until the Summer Solstice on June 21st. Here in the northern hemisphere, let’s enjoy this first — and every day — of spring.
How do I know this? I write and record the daily almanac piece entitled The Naturalist’s Datebook, heard exclusively on Martha Stewart Living Radio, Sirius 112/XM 157. Listen up. And see my other TSP almanac pieces here, including a piece on how I change my diet each month at the full moon, as well as at the new moon.
by marionroach on March 19, 2011
March 19, 2011 is the full moon, this month known as the Full Worm Moon. We take our full moon names from our Native American traditions, though the full moon of march has many other names as well as this one. Want to learn more? [click to continue…]
by marionroach on March 8, 2011
A RECENT STUDENT said simply, “I write to understand myself.” And I loved that. The world would be a better place if we all understood ourselves just the eensiest bit more, don’t you agree? Does it mean that all the people who are writing about themselves should publish? Of course not. In fact, this particular student has no aspirations toward publishing. And good for him. His aspirations delight me, as does his increasing awareness of the life he leads. How about you? Have you got something you’d like to examine about yourself? I bet you do, and that all you need is a little inspiration. Here’s some. [click to continue…]
by marionroach on March 7, 2011
I’M IN FOR some necessary change. And you know what? Good for me. I’ve been feeling a little stuffed up recently, and not just in my nose with the ongoing winter in the northeast, but in my life. And necessary change is just what is called for, or so says Sheilaa, our TSP astrologer, whose predictions are always spot on. Have you read what she has to say about you?
I’m an Aries. No surprise, with my red hair and fiery nature. Did you know I write about red hair here? And that fiery nature? Well, I’m a memoirist, and maybe this piece is the very best place to read up on just how hot it can get around here and whose job it is to cool me down.
Sheilaa tells me that my wildest dreams will come true, but only if I do the work. Such a great challenge. Speaking only of my professional life and my wildest dreams, as well as my efforts to achieve those dreams, all this will be given a real outing this year as my book on writing memoir comes out this June, published by Grand Central. And between now and then (and for a good long time after that) you can find me and that book on Twitter (mroachsmith@twitter.com), on Facebook (The Memoir Project), teaching at The Chautauqua Institute as well as at The Arts Center of the Capital Region, and launching a new how-to-write memoir website.
Follow along by watching this space, sisters.
by marionroach on March 4, 2011
Me, on the swim team, before I knew the 15 Rules.
ASKING FOR HELP. Oh, was that a shudder I saw go down your spine? What is it about asking for help that sets women on edge? No, I’m not talking about calling a babysitter. I’m talking about asking for real help, reaching out and saying “I’m not sure what to do,” or “I’m not good at this at all,” or “This makes me shake.” Maybe you are an exception to this, but I only recently came to extol the virtues of the skill of asking for help. And now I think I’ll plant a “Help Wanted” sign on my lawn. And why not? [click to continue…]